Plethora of Toxicity

 

In our life, we meet millions of people, and it will not be wrong to say that most of our time is spent in interaction with our co-workers, family members and strangers. These interactions help us assume the person as to if they are positive people or negative people. Positive people are the ones with whom we feel happy, motivated and who project a certain aura through which we feel secure. Those are the people with whom you should spend most of your time. But some of them just project negativity. These are the people who come into our lives to teach us about life. These people can be categorised into the following sections:

The attention seekers:

These are the people that we will find in most of the places, especially in colleges and school. They are the ones who want the world to look at them and appreciate their superiority, for them the only motive in life is to become the centre of attraction. This mostly happens in colleges and schools because we are immature, we have no sense about the world and we look at things through a small hole rather than looking at situations with a wider perspective. These people are toxic because they only care about themselves rather than the people around them, so if we are spending more time with them, then we are simply wasting our time, our decisions will be affected by these people and we will become their puppet.

Inflated egos:

These are the people with whom the more we live, the more we will feel like a loser. They the ones who present themselves as more of what they are, for them they are the above all. They think that they are the smartest and the rest of the population is dumb. This can also be in the form of monetary ego; these people think that just because they are rich, they have power above all. One must stay away from these type of people as they will ruin our self-esteem. Living with them will make us feel like a loser. What is bad in that situation is that you will forget our personality to achieve their status, which is obnoxious!

 

The irresponsible ones:

After watching many irresponsible people in my life, I have understood that we better keep our distance from them. They are the one who take everything for granted; the money, the time and every other resource. They will be the one to drink like there is no tomorrow, smoke shit so that they can “enjoy” the feeling of being high and get wasted. These people are also the ones who don’t respect other people’s time, they are in every possible sense “irresponsible” and living with them will make us like them and will ruin our life.

 

Negative people are all around us and it’s our responsibility to recognize them and throw them out of our lives. These were just some the types of toxic people that I have encountered in my life, there are many more and it is our responsibility to stay away from them. Just remember one thing, if our instinct says that this person is not right then we should trust our instinct and move away from them.